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Discussion in 'Getting Started' started by Sarsha, Apr 18, 2013.

  1. Sarsha

    Sarsha Member

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    To let you all know- I'm currently will be going through a divorce... don't worry though it's mutual- we are just not seeing eye to eye anymore- that he had apparently moved on pretty quick with this one girl weeks later after making that decision... but don't worry- I ended up meeting someone new, but just wants to be friends first and see how it goes- thankfully he thinks the same way since it's not finalized yet- as for him he's moving quick with this other person- don't get me wrong if she makes him happy fine- but that's what made our relationship sunk- we moved to fast- and I don't want him doing that to himself again- but he reassured me that he will wait a year or so till they'll get married.... we'll just see- I can only say that much- but I'll be staying in KY while he goes down to GA to be with her once the papers are drawn up and signed.... joint custody too on our son- lives with him during school season and with me in the summers- plus seeing him on the holidays....

    Just thought I'd let everyone know- since I haven't been on here much- that's why....
     
  2. Dolentrean

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    I wish you only the best. I know I don't know you very well... or at all, but I do very much hope that thing work out amicably for you and your soon to be ex husband.

    As things are ending, I think you owe it to yourself to worry about yourself more than he. He can handle himself, and part of a divorce means that you don't have to worry about his personal or romantic decisions unless it will cause your child any distress.

    If he chooses to move to fast, that is his concern, you worry about you girly. Best of luck to you.
     
  3. Sarsha

    Sarsha Member

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    Thanks

    Thanks- I've been lately been doing just that- he keeps coming to me every time some relationship goes wrong but that's his problem... I can be there and give advice as a friend, but that's all.